198. What to Do When Life Feels Heavy, But You "Should Be Grateful"
Do you have A LOT going on right now? You keep telling yourself you’re fine — you should be fine — but something still feels heavy?
You’re doing the things, showing up for everyone, checking the boxes… but underneath, you’re tired in a way that gratitude doesn’t fix. Maybe you’ve been carrying stress that no one sees. Maybe there’s a grief you’ve been trying to outrun. Or maybe you’re just exhausted from pretending you’re okay because “other people have it worse.”
Here’s the truth: you can be grateful and still feel overwhelmed. Both can exist. And in this episode, I’m vulnerably sharing the heavy things happening in my life currently + the moment I finally stopped minimizing what I was feeling — and the 2 shifts that helped me breathe again.
You’ll understand:
- Why naming hard things doesn’t make you ungrateful — it makes you honest
- The question that softened my hardest weeks: “How can this be easy?”
- How to stop carrying emotional weight that was never yours in the first place
- The journaling question that helped me see what I was carrying that wasn't mine
After listening, you’ll feel permission to stop “should-ing” yourself into silence and finally honor what’s heavy without getting swallowed by it.
Resources Mentioned:
- Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod
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