173. Why Being a 'Good Mom' Makes Your Kids Meltdown MORE | 5 Min Journal Prompts
If you've been thinking "I'm doing everything right, so why are my kids so "difficult?" Like the harder you try to be the perfect mom, the more your kids seem to fall apart? I see you!
You're absolutely crushing it at work - managing teams, solving problems, keeping everyone happy. Then you come home with every intention of being present, patient, and fun... only to watch your kids have complete meltdowns over the tiniest things.
In this 5-minute journal session, we'll uncover:
- The hidden reason "good mom" energy actually triggers more meltdowns
- What your kids are really picking up on when you're trying your hardest
- Why perfectionist parenting creates the exact chaos you're trying to prevent
- How to shift from performing motherhood to simply being enough
Today's Journal Prompts:
- Think about your most stressful parenting moment recently - what were you trying to control or fix?
- When your kids don't respond how you hoped after you've been trying so hard, what fear comes up?
- Where else in your life does "trying harder to be good enough" make things fall apart?
- What if your kids are responding to the pressure they feel from you trying to be perfect?
Your kids don't need a "good mom" - they need a mom who believes she's already enough, so they can feel safe being themselves too.
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