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25th Mar 2025

128. How to Know If You're Proud of Yourself: 4 Questions for Self Reflection

Have you ever stopped to think "am I proud of myself & the life I'm building?" In this episode of Journal Entries, I revisit a recent, vulnerable journal entry that completely shifted my perspective on pride and self-worth.

I explore what it truly means to feel proud of your life choices versus simply following expectations or checking boxes.

Through my own breakthrough realization during a lunar eclipse journaling session, I discovered the profound difference between complying with others' expectations and making choices that authentically align with who I am. This unexpected insight about pride might just change how you view your entire life!

In this episode, you'll discover:

  • The surprising lunar eclipse journal prompt that sparked my breakthrough ๐Ÿ’ญ
  • Why college achievements and corporate success didn't fill me with genuine pride
  • The specific life moments I feel most proud of (and why they weren't the "expected" ones)
  • How to distinguish between pride in compliance versus pride in conscious choice
  • 4 powerful self-reflection questions to determine if you're truly proud of your daily life
  • The connection between authentic pride and modeling emotional well-being for your children

As a single mom building a business from scratch during sleepless nights and toddler meltdowns, I've realized that true pride comes from listening to my inner voice and having the courage to follow itโ€”even when it's challenging. I'm sharing this journey with you in hopes that it helps you find your own path to pride and fulfillment.

This isn't about adding more to your overwhelming to-do list! It's about making conscious choices that feel authentically yours and finding pride in your unique journey.

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If this episode resonated with you, please screenshot and share it on your Instagram or Facebook stories and tag me @samantha.s.says! I love seeing who's tuning in, and your ratings and reviews help this show reach more women who need to hear these messages. ๐Ÿ’“

Chapters:

02:00 The Lunar Eclipse Journaling Prompt That Changed Everything

04:36 The Moment I Realized What True Pride Actually Feels Like

08:13 What I Want My Son to Know About Real Achievement

12:13 The 4 Questions to Uncover If You're Truly Proud of Your Life

14:21 Coaching and Overcoming Emotional Barriers

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About the Podcast

Journal Entries
Journal Entries is the podcast for ambitious women in business and leadership who want to stop bringing their work stress home.

Host Samantha Hawley, MBA and Clarity Coach, specializes in the ripple effect โ€” how your internal state at work directly impacts your patience, presence, and peace at home with your family.

If you're making $100k+ but find yourself snapping at your kids after a tough workday, overthinking during bedtime, or feeling like you can't turn off "boss mode" โ€” this podcast will help you master the transition from boardroom to living room. Because success shouldn't cost you your sanity or your family connection.
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